I tried to dye my hair blonde and it came out red, help!?

I have extremely healthy hair, it's like my life I'm always keeping it knot free and soft like silk lol. I'm a dark brunette and I've been dying it different shades for abut 3 years now (mostly dark colors). I like to use Natural Instincts cus it keeps my hair soft and not all frizzy like others but My mother suggested I buy this "Dream Blonde" to experiment since I'm "still young" it was from revlon I think, and I followed the directions clearly but when 30 minuets ped my hair was far from blonde. It was RED!!! and it feels frizzy and dry which makes me really mad. i wanna get a better color without damaging my hair further and i what i should do to get my hair healthy again? any suggestions???